Speechless Speeches

'Tis the season! Wedding season, that is! Which brings to mind memories of my brother's wedding reception and his best man's speech, which ultimately landed a spot on America's Funniest Home Videos.

The best man tried to propose a toast to the bride & groom, only to become overwhelmed with emotion. Each time he raised the microphone to his mouth, he would drop it back down to his side choking back his feelings and words. Ultimately, my brother grabbed the microphone and toasted to himself and his new bride!

Insofar as weddings are concerned, September is the new June. Some toasting tips:

1. This is a TOAST not a ROAST...do not berate or embarrass friends on their special day
2. Begin with a strong, heartfelt opening
3. Avoid negativity
4. DO NOT apologize ("I'm not good at giving speeches")
5. DO NOT hesitate ("Gosh, I don't know what to say")...chances are, you've had several weeks (or months) to plan and practice your speech
6. DO email me dmw@donnamariawalker.com to review and provide a professional critique of the most important public speech you will ever give!